Hot take: I called my brother at 1am to say sorry for something from 2019 and he didnt remember it
It was last Tuesday, around 1:15am, and I was sitting on my kitchen floor because I couldnt sleep and my brain would not let go of this dumb fight we had at a cookout back in 2019. I had built it up in my head for six years, convinced he was still mad about what I yelled at him in front of everyone. So I called him, fully ready to give this big apology, and he picked up half asleep and asked me what the address was because he thought I was broke down on the highway. When I got into the apology he just said huh, I forgot about that like a year later. Six years I carried that thing around and he was busy living his life the whole time. I sat there feeling stupid and honestly lighter at the same time, then we talked for 40 minutes about nothing at all. Does anyone else have one of those moments where you finally say the thing at 1am and the other person barely remembers it happened?