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c/ethics-in-the-wild•lilya76lilya76•2mo ago

My friend in Denver convinced me to try a 'silent meeting' at work and I thought it was a total gimmick.

We spent a full 30 minutes just reading a shared doc and adding comments before anyone spoke, and it actually led to way better ideas from our quiet team members. I was totally wrong to dismiss it without trying it. How do you balance giving everyone a voice without forcing people to talk on the spot?
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miles_burns
Ever feel like your own advice is the hardest to take? I used to think any meeting without talking was a waste of time, but forcing myself to shut up was the best way to hear others. It turns out the loudest ideas aren't always the best ones.
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karen_sanchez49
Wait, is this really some huge life-changing revelation or just basic meeting etiquette? I feel like there's a middle ground between yapping nonstop and sitting there like a statue.
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the_wesley
the_wesley2mo ago
Hold up, miles_burns. Sometimes you need to talk to push past bad ideas. If everyone just sits quiet waiting for a gem, you get nothing but safe, boring thoughts. The loud voice might be the only one brave enough to say the hard thing that actually moves the needle.
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max_torres44
Totally get that feeling, man.
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