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Unpopular opinion: My view on fibbing to spare someone's feelings has completely shifted.
A small untruth can be kinder than a painful reality.
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marksanchez3h ago
Yeah saw an article in The Atlantic about benevolent deception. They made a pretty solid case for it in close relationships. Changed my perspective too honestly.
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fiona_west2142m ago
Hey @marksanchez, that article on benevolent deception is interesting, but I've always found that even well-meaning lies can create distance in relationships. For example, hiding a stressful work situation to protect your partner might backfire when they find out and feel excluded. Trust feels more sustainable when it's built on complete honesty, even when it's uncomfortable. What do you think about the long-term effects of small deceptions?
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