Just realized cutting my brother off cold beat trying to "talk it out" for 2 years
Every sit-down with him in Denver turned into him flipping it back on me, but one clean text saying we're done and blocking his number gave me actual peace. Anyone else find that a hard cutoff worked way better than slow fading or one more talk?
Funny how the stuff that actually works is usually the thing we put off forever, same with quitting jobs or ending bad leases. Sometimes the door slam is the whole fix and the endless talks are just us stalling.